November 25th, 2011 | Author: admin
Question by Realquestion: Is it a good idea to use the "sex toys" to a woman you love?
I have used "sex toys" with my girl friend. I used it because I "believe" that it will excite her more, and therefore, excite me as well. I did try to get the answer from my girl friend, but I could not get a clear answer. She never say it in straight words that she likes it. She did question me why I want use the "sex toys" because she thinks that making love should be pure and beautiful. However, from the "response" when I used the "sex toys", I do feel that she is indeed more excited. Furthermore, each time I hinted that I would bring the "sex toys" with me to her place, she seems to receive it very well.
I am not sure...I would appreciate answers from the ladies.
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Answer by emo_luvs_music
sex toys ?????????????? wtf r thoughs
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Sex toys are fun weather a lone or your with your partner. It adds a ellimate of suprise to the whole thing and gives her a lot more pleasure. Her response is kinda vague. She might not want you to think she is too kinky, but I think she is trying to slowly tell you let do this. I like sex toys with you.
Hell yea…..it adds to the pleasure!!!!
A change is always welcome once in a while. But make sure you are not being replaced by the sex toys. Try to satisfy her as much as the toys do. Add more love and be experimental. You both should enjoy the love making not just one person. Good Luck!
She may not give you a straight answer, but yes the sex toys are a good idea. I think that love making should be pure and beautiful also, but lets be honest. Sometimes it has to be fun and erotic. With change comes growth. A relationship can not grow without change and compromise. Adding new things to your sex life can always make things more fun and interesting. Try some warming massage oils and blindfolds. They are very intriguing.
ive been in a similar situation and there were times where she wanted to and didnt want to(use the toys). i have an extremely open relationship with her so i just flat out ask her. i say do the same. and be honest. tell her why you want to. she should want to please you as well.
Sex toys are great if you both enjoy using them, but you should not put pressure on her to use them. Normally people start using toys when they have tried everthing else.
i would keep using them , she’s probably just embarrassed to say that she likes it.
If you are unclear I’d tell her exactly like you just did here… if you think she is OK with it..I’d go for it.. but always ask her before you just “use them”.. no unexpected surprises, also it’s not something that is needed all of the time.. remember those 2 things and you will be fine..Have Fun!!
hey if you and your woman like it. and she seems to be going along with it? i feel theres ntohing wrong with brining something exciting to the bedroom as long as you are both on the same page. maybe you can ask her sometime if she likes it, becuase if she doesnt, you would stop bringing them in a heartbeat. im sure she would love to hear that from you. if you use them each and every time she might think she isnt doing it for you. ask her. do it with AND without toys. but like i said, nothing wrong with it.
Well ask your self this…
“Is my girl kinky?” Me personally would just like to have pure Dick in my pussy cause sex toys is for when us girls are lonley not when there is a man is around!! gosh
she might not like the toys because she might only want you in her not all people like toys.
dude man to man lose the toys she probably thinking you not using your d i c k because you don’t want to do it with her so give the toys to her to use when u are not there and also that like putting a paper bag on her head with a picture of Jessica Alba
No I am male But I have toys as well my wife and I play with.
They are fun but they remind me of a cubic zircon (fake diamond) look great but nothing like the real thing.
First my wife prefers oral on her second she prefers my 1/4 inch stimulating her without penetration then penetration.
But I have a bad back and sometimes we use the toy because unfortunately the movement from me creates too much pain.
Don’t forget to give your lady a massage behind the knee and in the crook of her elbow as well.
Na toys are fun the other are intimacy.
OMG, you should not always do that!
Your girlfriend will be addicted of “sex toys” and instead of you.
It is dangerous!
She didnt give an out right ‘no’ so mayb shes unsure but willing to give it a go. Or perhaps she shy about admitting she likes it. Just try to talk to her about it, but be sure to tell her why you suggedted them in the first place, & that she doesnt need to be shy with you-its ok to like it!
I enjoy toys on ocassion as a nice addition to normal sex.